Friday, December 6 2019
8:15pm - 2:00am

BENT: Winter Ball, a play event for kinky youth**, hosted by Shay & Jade

Clamp chains ring! Are you listening?
Round the gag, plaintive whispering
We're tied up tonight
Singletails are in flight
Playing in a kinky Wonderland

Escape the icy chill (well, in San Francisco, 50 weather) and come snowball in our steaming hot dungeon! Come in sexy formal attire, snow bunny, ice royalty, or winter wonderland adjacent characters.

BENT is hosted by Jade and Shay, and features:
* Hundreds of attendees filling our voluptuous playspace with the hottest kinky play you'll ever see in person... anywhere!
* Interactive & entertaining orientation with hosts Jade & Shay from 8:30-9:15pm (doors open at 8:15pm) HIGHLY recommended, especially for "newcomers," and offered at no extra cost.
* Opening bondage performances
* Well-appointed play stations
* A photo zone (with house photographer Michael) in the back room (consent of everyone in the pic is required and photos will ONLY be permitted in this strictly sectioned-off area)
* "Play only" zones BENT is full of exhibitionists and we welcome voyeurs, but observers will be limited to certain areas. You'll still be able to see & be seen, we promise!

* BENT is for kinky youth. For the purposes of this event, "youth" is 18, 19, 20's and 30's. As always, BENT is 18+, ID required.

New to the community, coming to BENT solo, or just want to meet a bunch of new people? Join us the day before BENT for BENT Kinky Speed Connections, hosted by Davey Faye and Psychokat!

* 8:15pm-2am
* At the SF Citadel, 181 Eddy St, SF
* Cost: $20 at the door
* Dress code: No effort = no entry. Costumes encouraged but not required! If you don't wish to costume, basic black, sexy/lace/leather also works.
* Given the Adult environment, no drugs or alcohol are permitted at the SF Citadel.

Volunteering is a great way to get involved and meet people... and a one hour shift gets you free entry to the event! E-mail if you're interested in volunteering!

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