Thursday, August 22 2019
8:00pm - 10:00pm

The Art of Ownership with Master Rook and slave rook

SF Citadel, 181 Eddy St, San Francisco, CA

Cost: $10 for SoJ Members & Reciprocals, $20 All Others
Dress code: Whatever makes you feel good

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About the Program

"I'm yours." "You're mine." Ownership has a powerful pull for some of us. Many desire to fully possess someone, or give ourselves over to anotherómaybe for one scene, maybe for absolutely everything. How does one have personal agency and explore owner/property dynamics? How can we reconcile the reality of non-consensual slavery with our fantasies? How can we queer the prevalent images of kinky authority exchange relationships? Is it even possible to play without limits? And here's the big question: What is it about this that gets you hot? Explore the full spectrum of owner/property fantasies, from scene-only dirty talk to collared pups to 24/7 Master/slave relationships, and find a style that works for you!

About the presenters

Master Rook and slave rook met in 2011 and the power between them was palpable from the start. Through many thought experiments, protocols, google documents, and fucked up scenes, their contract and the limits of their authority exchange was carefully crafted into 24/7 M/s. They had a collaring in 2013, covering in 2016, and married in 2017, assuming the family name Rook. They have taught together at dozens of events and many ecourses on slave rook is the co-creator and illustrator of The GENDER Book and the game Kinkopoly; Master Rook has written thousands of dirty words for anthologies, columns, and their own site,, under the pen name of Sinclair Sexsmith. They live together in Oakland.

About Society of Janus

The Society of Janus is a not-for-profit, all volunteer, San Francisco-based education and support organization devoted to the art of hot, safe, consensual and non-exploitative BDSM. Janus provides an opportunity to meet others with similar interests in a safe, relaxed atmosphere. Janus is an organization open to persons of all genders, sexual orientations, roles, and experience levels. Janus also provides a chance to get involved with the greater SF Bay Area BDSM community.

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