Saturday, November 13 2021
7:00pm - 12:00am


The Bay Area's Premier Event for Dominant Women and Those Who Love to Serve Them


We will be verifying that all attendees are over the age of 18 and have been fully vaccinated before being permitted to enter the event. In addition you must consent to a rapid COVID-19 test and temperature check at the door prior to being allowed to enter the party. Tests will be provided by us at the door and are included in the ticket price. If your temperature is elevated or your rapid test is positive for COVID-19 you will be disallowed entry and receive a refund of your ticket minus the cost of the test.


Aura is the Bay Area’s newest and hottest party for dominant women and all those who adore them! AURA is an exciting and inclusive event for self-identified dominant women of all types, and those of any gender who love them, to come together in the spirit of knowledge, strength, community and growth. We invite and encourage you to join us so you can also experience the charm and allure that AURA offers.

All Are Welcome

AURA is an inclusive event. We welcome kinky adults of all gender identities, sexual orientations, ethnicities, roles, and experience levels. This is a body-positive event. We expect all attendees to honor the diversity of our community.

That being said, AURA is a safe space for dominant women and those who love them. If you do not usually align with this dynamic, please respect others at this event by ensuring your energy and activity aligns with the female dominant dynamic for the evening. If you are unable to or unwilling to then please don’t attend or you may be asked to leave.

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AURA is about coming together to have fun; to support one another; to share, build, and grow a thriving, durable community. Whether a scene veteran or a relative newcomer, everyone can have something positive to contribute to the community we belong to.

Ice-breakers to Help You Connect

Role stickers will help you meet the kinds of kinksters you want to meet. Use our ice-breakers to help meet new people. AURA is the perfect opportunity to make friends with other like-minded folks with whom to explore, learn, play and connect.

Demos and Presentations

AURA will feature a fun and educational demo at every party. At this party we are proud to present the amazingly talented educator and entertainer RainDeGrey who will run a fun and informative demo.


There & Back Again

Parking in the immediate vicinity is limited, We recommend using the Black Thorn shuttle service when available, or using rideshare. Shuttle service details will be provided in an email to attendees for events where the shuttle runs.

The closest BART station is Lake Merritt.


A vaccine verification, temperature check ,and rapid test is required to be performed on-site before entering AURA. All ticket types include a free COVID-19 rapid test.


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Attendees must arrive between 6:45PM and 9PM in order to be rapid-tested and cleared to enter the event. If you need an exception and know that you cannot avoid arriving after 9pm - You MUST email us at on or before Thursday November 11th to make arrangements, otherwise you will be denied entry due to unavailability of testers.

Consent is Paramount

Part of our responsibility in fostering a consent culture is to provide some guidance to help prevent consent incidents from happening at our events.

  • Informed and voluntary consent is always required before play. The entire scope of any scene, including what parts of the body there may be contact with and the nature of such contact, should be negotiated prior to beginning any actual play.
  • People at our events come from different backgrounds and have vastly different life experiences. All attendees may expect to be treated by event staff and other attendees with respect irrespective of age, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identity, body type, disability, etc.
  • People can expect that their persons and property shall not be touched without prior permission.
  • Attendees should not be addressed as “Mistress”, “Sir”, “slut”, “slave”, etc. or any potentially offensive terms or violating words unless they have given prior permission.
  • Each participant in a scene is responsible for making sure that everyone involved in the scene has the mental and emotional ability to give informed and voluntary consent for the scene. We consider people who are under the influence of substances, in subspace or otherwise not in a clear state of mind to be incapable of giving informed and voluntary consent.
  • While playing, players may not do anything that was not already explicitly agreed to.
  • Any participant in a scene has the right to withdraw consent at any time by means of an agreed-upon safeword, a non-verbal safe-sign or using the house safeword “SAFEWORD”. Once consent is withdrawn, all activity in the scene must stop.

Any consent concerns can be confidentially given to the hosts at the event, on Fetlife @-Diablo- or @Amande; or by email at