Monday, November 8 2021
6:00pm - 8:00pm

WEBINAR: Cerebral Play with Retro Bella:
"Tickle My Brain, Baby!"

Note: This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. No on-site tickets will be available.


Why is a mindfuck SOOO exciting? Why is it so important to include the brain in kinky play? How do I ask for this safely and what do I do if it goes bad?

Part psychological manipulation and part emotional manipulation, mind fucking is a play style where a Top/Dominant temporarily and consensually distorts the reality of their bottom/submissive. Join us as we explore the fundamentals needed before exploring this advanced style of play. We will be covering how to :

Gather information to use in constructing your scene

Create ground rules and safewords

Earn trust and ask/ receive consent

Ask for this kind of scene

Laying the groundwork

Successfully managing your scene


There will be time for plenty of questions and a guided exercise or two. So join us on this journey as we explore this taboo topic.


Retro Bella is a Latina High Femme Master and Leather Woman based out of the Southern San Joaquin Valley. She is a Dominant energy player with a passion for M/s, heavy impact, high protocol, and mind fuckery.

Retro Bella’s kink history began with a curious search online after watching Nine Inch Nails music videos on MTV. The 1st few glimpses into early online kink life was both shocking and titillating, but those images were never forgotten and peppered her innermost sexual desires. Fast forward to 2009 and she finally gets brave and attends a kink event. To say that she’s hooked is an understatement. Suddenly a lot of things in her life start to make sense and that is such an empowering feeling.

The following year she became an active member of the Bakersfield BDSM community and in 2017, Retro Bella became not only the President of the valley’s 1st girls of Leather chapter, San Joaquin girls of Leather, but she also created the extremely successful workshop series, “Women Educators in the Valley.” In 2020, she has had the honor of serving as the Assistant Director of the M.A.s.T Bakersfield, and Presenter Lead for the FLAME Conference.

Together with her slave boy drake, they've taught for multiple groups on the West Coast, Rocky Mountain region, Internationally, and have had the pleasure of sitting on numerous BIPOC speaking panels.

Here's my pay stuff


Venmo: @retrobella


Tickets: $15 - $35 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.

We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.

The regular ticket is $25. This is what most people should pay.

The $15 ticket is offered for those for whom the $25 ticket would be a barrier to participation. If $25 is too much, we take your word for it! Just pay $15.

Have a great salary? Feeling generous? Paying at the $35 level allows us to make the discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

So - that's it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.


This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you will need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will not be recorded and is not available for later viewing.

Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

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