Thursday, January 27 2022
6:00am - 8:00am

ONLINE: 30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery with Auntie Vice

Note: This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. No on-site tickets will be available.


Join Auntie Vice for 30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery. This daily class is designed to help you explore your kinky identity, what you want from kink, and what you need for a satisfying relationship and sex life. Whether you are new to kink or simply looking to deepen your kink identity and practice, this class is individualized enough to help you explore your desires and needs.

First Class is Free! Join with this link:

This class employs journaling and short exercises the members do at home. We meet daily to discuss the work you have done, what you are finding out about yourself, and how people are deepening their understanding of themselves and their kinks. The journal exercises and activities are designed to help you learn more about kink, power exchange, and fetishes as well as explore your own psychological and sexual needs. The daily class check-ins are voluntary and you may join as many or as few as works for you!

The first class is free to see if it will work for you. The class is for people of every kink, gender, and sexual orientation. Exercises are developed to allow for all levels of experience and ability. Participants will receive a free workbook for the course.

Course Outline:

Dec 18 Introductory class (Free), Course overview, ways to explore your kinky world

Week 1: Me, Myself, and I

Jan 4 Kink origin stories and how they shape our identities

Jan 5 Blurred lines: identity, roles, and expression of kinky self

Jan 6 Finding our language: looking at labels, connotations, and concepts of identity

Jan 7 Drive and Images: What underlying images/tropes drive your kink

Jan 8 Ideals: Relations, Role, and Sexual Ideals of the self

Week 2: Roles

Jan 11 Defining Roles in Kink

Jan 12 Idealized Roles and Relationships

Jan 13 Confronting Reality: Limits, Fetishes, Roles and More!

Jan 14 “One True Wayism,” “Real” kink, and other Myths and Misconceptions

Jan 15 Identifying Your Needs and How Roles May Meet Them

Week 3: Power

Jan 18 Evolving Identities: How to deal with changing needs, changing desires

Jan 19 Finding Your Personal Power

Jan 20 Power for All Identities

Jan 21 Alternative Forms of Power in Kink

Jan 22 Circles of Power

Week 4: Getting Very Personal

Jan 23 Yikes! Dealing with What Scares You

Jan 26 Kink, Healing, and Trauma

Jan 27 Kink and Health

Jan 28 Drilling Down: Identifying your core kink

Jan 29 Going Forward: What’s Next?


Auntie Vice/Rebecca Blanton

Auntie Vice is a freelance writer and podcaster. She has been part of the kink community for more than three decades. An agender, queer, submissive, her work focuses on kink from the right of the slash. She runs the popular blog "Love Letters to a Unicorn" and the podcast "Fat Chicks on Top." She has a BA in psychology and a Ph.D. (abd) in Political Psychology. She brings her background as an academic researcher and understanding of systematic, institutional and personal power to her work about kink.


Single day, multi- day, and full 21 day passes available!

Single Class: $15 - $35 with a suggested $25

5 Class Bundle: $75

10 Class Bundle: $150

15 Class Bundle: $225

21 Class Bundle (Entire Series): $300


This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you will need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will not be recorded and is not available for later viewing.

Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

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