Wednesday, July 7 2021
11:00am - 1:00pm

An Introvert's Guide to Kink / Rain DeGrey [Virtual Boundless Event]

☆ Online Wed 7-7 Boundless Presents: An Introvert's Guide to Kink / Rain DeGrey

Boundless Events / Year Around - Munches, Happy Hours, Classes, Parties, Annual Retreat and Virtual Events & Gatherings - Relax • Play • Bond & Learn

Boundless Events proudly brings you

the amazing and knowledgeable Rain DeGrey!

Wednesday, July 07, 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM

Suggested donation of $20

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Class: An Introvert's Guide to Kink

Fetlife Photo of Rain DeGrey:

About: An Introvert's Guide to Kink:

Not all of us are extroverted social butterflies.
“Just go out and have some fun”…
“Go to a munch and meet new people”…

These are easy things to say, but much harder to do for us introverts. If social anxiety, uncertainty or nerves has ever kept you from being the kinkster that you desire to be, this is the class for you!

Introvert and kinkster Rain DeGrey takes you through the steps to conquer your fears and face social settings so that you can have the experiences you crave. Whether you are a nervous newbie or a more experienced kinkster still facing anxiety, there will be something for every level of introvert.

Topics covered include:

You are guaranteed to walk away from this class with a better understanding of how to combat your anxiety and techniques to effectively socialize as an introvert. Don’t let being shy hold you back, come learn how to be the best version of you that you possibly can be!

This is a pansexual class open to all genders and orientations, everyone is welcome!

About Rain DeGrey:

Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster, and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes, focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education, since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model, Pro Domme, and competitive wrestler, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style. She believes strongly in making sex education fun and engaging.

She has taught on a wide variety of topics at numerous venues including Harvard University, Northwestern University,, The Citadel, Dark Odyssey, Folsom Street Fair, KinkAcadamy, Thunder in the Mountains, and Boundcon in Germany.

Boundless Events looks forward to you virtually attending this class on Zoom. Please save the date and / or RSVP

Eventbrite Ticket Link:


Fetlife Event Info and RSVP Link:

Prior to attending, please make yourself familiar with our VIRTUAL EVENTS RULES & GUIDELINES:

Located Fetlife: (also posted at the bottom of this Erobay Page) - Thank you!

Dress Respectfully and please act Respectfully as well. Rain is here to educate you.

See you in class! ❤️ 💙



PLEASE READ ALL OF THE FOLLOWING — Contains meeting login, protocol and conduct info, and other important stuff!

The Boundless Virtual Happy Hour replicates our monthly Berkeley and Sacramento munches. Boundless social events are not only a way for current members to stay connected, but also a chance for new folks to get to know us—therefore, this is not a sex party.

Boundless Classes, Parties and other events are also governed by these rules.

Protocol and Conduct:

Established Boundless Event rules for in-person events apply :

Rules for virtual events:

• AGE LIMITS & ACTIVE PARTICIPATION: In virtual events, the area/room within EACH participant's space becomes part of the event space and should be treated as such by each participants. This means that everyone in your immediate area/room must be 21+ and be an active participant in the event. We would like YOUR full and active participation as well, so please refrain from multi-tasking during the event.
• DRESS CODE & BEHAVIOR: Unless specifically described as such, it's is NOT a sex party, and, we ask that you please act accordingly: wear clothes, refrain from sexual behavior, and do as you would when showing up at a bar or restaurant. Sexy clothes that you would wear in public, bawdy conversation, and flirting are welcome, but please don’t flash your naughty bits.
• VIDEO CAMERAS ON: This is required for all to enjoy socializing—blackout participation is not allowed. (Masks are OK, but we would rather see your fabulous faces.)
• NO RECORDING OR SCREEN SHOTS ALLOWED: Please respect the privacy of others. That said, there is the risk that someone will record and/or misuse your image and you are therefore entering the virtual space at your own risk.
• Check your user name. Zoom displays the names of all participants, so if you prefer to use your scene name, you will need to update your name field by clicking on “Participants”, hovering over your name and selecting “More” and “Rename”.
• Please be aware that not everyone is open to private messages, interaction, or comments. Please update your preferred interaction type in your name field and respect others’ preferred interaction type:

  • Green (G) - open to accepting comments and interaction via private chat without being asked first. If someone asks you to stop interacting with them, you must stop.
  • Yellow (Y) - ask first before beginning an interaction on private chat, e.g., “Are you open to chatting?” If someone says “no” or asks you to stop interacting with them, you must stop.
  • Red (R) - NOT open to accepting comments or interaction via private chat.

• Please include your preferred pronouns in your name field.

Example: (G) Mistress Kay - she/her

Please remember that if you experience a conduct issue during an event, you may private chat with the Host or any other Boundless team member. If you need to report a conduct issue after an event, please email

• CONDUCT & HELP: If you are experiencing tech issues, a conduct situation, or any other urgent matter, please message the SUPPORT FAIRY in the chat sidebar. (If you wish to be private, be sure to select “To: SUPPORT FAIRY” and not “To: Everyone”)

Violation of standards will result in immediate expulsion from the event by staff and a Conduct Team review.

Hosted by members of your friendly BOUNDLESS TEAM:
specifics / TBA

Before joining the meeting:
• INSTALL THE ZOOM APP: If you haven’t already done so (you may use the free version), and familiarize yourself with the controls. In the desktop version, controls become visible when you hover your cursor at the bottom of the screen. On the phone, tap the screen to make the controls appear.
• CHECK YOUR PROFILE NAME: Zoom displays the names of all participants, so if you prefer to use your scene name, you will need to update your profile name. Best to do this before you join the meeting.
• TURN YOUR VIDEO CAMERA ON: This is required—we want you visible.
• CHECK YOUR ENVIRONMENT: Be sure there are no non-active participants in your room/immediate area, and nothing in view that you wouldn’t want others to see. Feel free to use the Virtual Background feature (click the arrow next to video control to access).
• WEAR CLOTHES: As we do at our in-person happy hours—this is purposely a relaxed, social event, not a sex event. You must also be dressed for our classes, presentations and other events (unless it's a play party.)

After the event:
• We welcome your feedback: please email us at

THIS IS A BIG EXPERIMENT—Please be patient with tech glitches, directives, etc. Mostly, just relax and enjoy each other’s company, or enjoy learning, or playing or whatever is the task at hand.

GET ALL EVENTBRITE TICKETS HERE! (Tickets are FREE for our Virtual Happy Hours and used for your protection and to keep the event secure.)
Zoom information will be sent to ticket buyers.

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