Sunday, November 11 2018
2:00pm - 4:00pm

Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships presented by Stella Harris


Deciding what you want to do is just the beginning. Digging into the how and the why helps make sure everyone is on the same page, getting their needs met, and having fun!

From vanilla sex to intense kink, all play starts with talking and Stella will show you ways to dig into not just what you want to do, but how you want to feel. She’ll show how the same scene can play out in different ways depending on the intentions that have been set and she’ll read some erotica passages to illustrate her point, as well as helping the class work through a variety of exercises.

Bring a partner and an open mind and get ready to dig into fantasies you didn’t know you had or didn’t know how to make happen, as well as new ways to connect when you play.

Stella Harris is such a nerd about communication that she wrote a book about it - look for Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships released this September from Cleis Press.
As a Certified Intimacy Educator and Sex Coach, she uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM.
Stella teaches at venues and conferences across the country (and Canada!) most recently appearing at ConvergeCon in Vancouver BC, Dark Odyssey: Surrender in San Francisco, Kinky Kollege in Chicago, and Reed College in her adopted hometown of Portland, Oregon. In addition to her upcoming book, Stella has been busy writing her sex column for the Willamette Week, Humptown! Widely quoted in the media, Stella has made guest appearances on numerous podcasts including Sex on the Brain, Strange Bedfellows, and Playboy Radio. Her articles have appeared in Cosmopolitan,, and, and her fiction is included in more than a dozen anthologies. Learn more at or follow @stellaerotica on Twitter or @stellaharriserotica on Instagram.


-You must be 18+ with valid photo ID. NO EXCEPTIONS.
-No outside food or alcoholic beverages.
-Arrive on time. Any guests arriving late may not be permitted to enter. Please understand that is in effort to not disturb our intimate workshop setting.
-This location is wheelchair accessible.

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