Sunday, November 11 2018
6:00pm - 8:00pm

Mapping the Vulva: Anatomy, Communication, Touch, and Pleasure presented by Stella Harris


There is so much mystery surrounding vulvas that itís become a pop-culture joke. From Orange is the New Black to Gay Men Draw Vaginas - where even the title is inaccurate. Unfortunately, the joke is on us. With vulvas being a place of mystery, and worse - a source of shame - womenís ability to receive pleasure from this area of their body can be extremely diminished. In this class we will dispel misinformation and teach you all about the vulva from anatomy to styles of touch. In addition to the external genitalia the underlying anatomical structures, the vagina, and the g-spot will also be covered.

But we wonít dive straight in. As with all of my classes, the content is shown through the lens of intimacy and connection. We will cover styles of communication that will set both the giver and the receiver of touch at ease and give you tools to communicate your desires. There is a whole world of pleasure available if giver and receiver are willing to learn how to relax, open up, and to touch and receive touch.

Class Outline:
6-7:30 Lecture & Discussion
7:30-8pm Optional hands on practice/exploration.

Practice Notes
If you plan on practicing you must arrive with a consenting partner.
Please bring a yoga mat and a towel. We will have some yoga mats to loan out if you do not own one.

If you do not plan on practicing and/or do not attend with a partner the class will conclude at 7:30pm and the space will be cleared for practice.

Presenter bio:

Stella Harris is such a nerd about communication that she wrote a book about it - look for Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships released this September from Cleis Press.
As a Certified Intimacy Educator and Sex Coach, she uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM.
Stella teaches at venues and conferences across the country (and Canada!) most recently appearing at ConvergeCon in Vancouver BC, Dark Odyssey: Surrender in San Francisco, Kinky Kollege in Chicago, and Reed College in her adopted hometown of Portland, Oregon. In addition to her upcoming book, Stella has been busy writing her sex column for the Willamette Week, Humptown! Widely quoted in the media, Stella has made guest appearances on numerous podcasts including Sex on the Brain, Strange Bedfellows, and Playboy Radio. Her articles have appeared in Cosmopolitan,, and, and her fiction is included in more than a dozen anthologies. Learn more at or follow @stellaerotica on Twitter or @stellaharriserotica on Instagram.

-You must be 18+ with valid photo ID. NO EXCEPTIONS.
-No outside food or alcoholic beverages.
-Arrive on time. Any guests arriving late may not be permitted to enter. Please understand that is in effort to not disturb our intimate workshop setting.
-This location is wheelchair accessible.

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We look forward to having you at KINK HQ!

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